Control- You Have More Than You Think

by Melissa Watkins

As any good control freak will tell you, much of our lives is out of our control.  The traffic on your way to work in the morning, your boss’ mood on that day, your children’s behavior when you aren’t around, your significant other’s day being good or bad, the cold or flu that may creep into your household, your dog’s digestive problems and so much more throughout a single day.  If you’re like most, you’ve learned to find a balance- controlling the things that you can and letting go of the things that you can't.

While we practice this behavior very well in the majority of our lives, many of us struggle with this concept in our own health and wellness.  I see two extremes in the fitness industry:

1)      A client that believes that their body is nearly 100% out of their control. Whether they have credited their weight gain or lack of loss to menopause, hypothyroidism, a hysterectomy or merely their age [this one is the most common], they've decided it is not under their umbrella of control. In doing this, they've stopped trying to reach goals.  They're now either just maintaining or have completely thrown it to the wind [eat what they want, little to no exercise].

2)      A client that believes their body is 100% in their control. This client comes in with a very specific picture [sometimes literally] of what kind of body type they want,  going 100% right away, every class they can do, personal training and a strict food plan.  While I love this client’s enthusiasm, generally one of 2 things happens: 1) they hurt themselves. They start too fast, ignoring the necessity of stretching and resting or fail to properly fuel their overworked bodies with enough calories. 2) They burn themselves out and need to take a break. Usually this break ends up being a break-up.

Have you found yourself guilty of one of those two things over the years? If so, I’m telling you that there’s a better way!

First, I need you to say these words to yourself out loud- “My body is in my control.” Now, I need you to believe that.

Secondly, I need you to set some goals again. Start small. Start with 3 realistic and attainable goals [i.e- not “lose 100 lbs this month]. And make sure those goals have a realistic and attainable time frame. Unsure what that time frame make look like? Ask me. Here’s some ideas:

-          Start each day with a healthy breakfast

-          Drink 8 glasses a water a day

-          Pack a healthy lunch for work on Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays

-          Go to 3 classes per week at Steps

-          Make it to Sculpt Tuesdays and Thursdays for 4 weeks

-          Lose 5 lbs by this day next month

-          Do 10 push-ups each morning after breakfast

-          Pack my workout clothes & take to work with me M-F

-          Attend P90X every Saturday that I’m in town

-          Add Personal Training with Melissa 1 time per week for 1 month

WRITE THEM DOWN. This is the key to accountability.

 PRINT GOAL WORKSHEET

Finally- the kicker…MAKE A PLAN. Connect the dots between your present state and your goal.  If you say you are going to lose 5 lbs this month, tell yourself HOW. How will you be changing your life to meet this goal? What change will you make today? One week from now? 3 weeks from now?

  

Finally, find the errors in your plan before you begin. Ask yourself these simple questions, honestly:

1.  Do you have the knowledge that you need?
1.  If yes, proceed.
2.  If no, find the tools. Sign up for a Nutritional Consultation at Steps or a Personal Training Session. Even one session can help you establish better goals.
2. Do you have the motivation?
1.  If yes, proceed.
2.  If no:
1. Ask a friend to meet you for classes
2. Ask a loved one to hold you accountable to your goals
3. Sign-up for personal training
4. Join one of our new Motivation Groups!
3.  Is your plan enough?
1. Are you fixing your diet?
1. If yes, proceed
2. If no, you can NOT overcompensate for a bad diet with excessive exercise. It must start in your kitchen!
2.  Are you working out, in some way, at least 3 times/weekly?
1. If yes, GOOD!
2. If no, find another way to add exercise. Talk to Melissa about satellite Personal Training from the comfort of your own home!

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